Christian dating and boundaries
The partner with the stricter boundaries should set the norm for the couple.
All that being said, there are certain physical boundaries that are clearly biblical.
We are told not to wrong each other in matters of intimacy.
Dating couples do not have the commitment that married couples do.
One way married couples strengthen their relationship is by praying together. But the manner in which they pray should preserve their personal boundaries. For God has not called us for impurity, but in holiness." (See also Colossians 3:5 and Galatians -24).
While this passage primarily applies to physical boundaries, it can also cover other areas of intimacy.
Ephesians 5:3 says, "But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints." The New International Version puts it this way, "But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people." Anything in a premarital relationship that hints of sexual immorality – like dry sex, foreplay, nudity, sleeping in the same bed, pornography, and the like – is unacceptable.
When we invite others into this, we are inviting them into intimacy. First Thessalonians 4:3-7 says, "For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God; that no one transgress and wrong his brother in this matter, because the Lord is an avenger in all these things, as we told you beforehand and solemnly warned you.Emotional intimacy occurs when couples share their inner thoughts with one another and rely on one another for emotional support.To an extent, dating couples will become increasingly emotionally intimate. As people begin to know and trust one another, they become more deeply emotionally linked.It is also inappropriate to be naked in one another's presence.Sex is a gift from God that is meant for a married couple to enjoy (Proverbs ; Song of Solomon; 1 Corinthians 7:1-4; Hebrews 13:4).