Dating a recently divorced dad
You are a Pawn - No divorced woman wants to live in defeat and so in order for her to move on and try to “handle” her failure, she needs you to achieve her success plan.Remember, she is hurting from the loss of a marriage and since she can’t just “revenge” without consequences, she needs to boost her ego and this is where you come in.At this point, she commences war with the ex (whether good or bad) and she will always want to show him that she is doing much better than him and sadly you are just a pawn in her deadly game. Unlike a divorced man who shuns the idea of marriage again, for a divorced woman it’s the opposite.She doesn’t want that divorced title for the rest of her life.You are the tool that shows she’s moved on and she doesn’t just take you as you are.She will dominate you, she will ensure she’s the boss.She will find ways to get you to do the unthinkable of you dropping your sorry knee and asking her to marry you, because she’s not having it being called a divorcee, and if you’re dumb enough to succumb to that, then you’ve just reserved a VIP ticket in her hell.
Though this may not always be true, most divorcees can’t handle the assumptions whether they are true or not.
So even though you’re the man in her life now, she will always find a way to differentiate you with the ex.
Whether you’re having a nice meal, she will unconsciously say “oh my ex hated mashed potatoes, so glad you like it,” or you go shopping and she will say “my ex hated shopping.” In the beginning of your relationship you won’t notice it but gradually it becomes a pattern.
So if you, as the replacement of her sorry ex, are not fulfilling the job requirements, you will be given the boot faster than the speed of light.
Women today have more power to end relationships unlike in the past where a woman was stuck to her husband for life regardless of the state of the marriage.