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If you act like it's no big deal, it ends up being no big deal in most cases. Not drinking forces you to be braver and to make things happen—a good skill to build in life, period. Evaluating whether you really like a person is simpler since you're taking in every question about a guy's personality.

Great people—at least for me—are open-minded enough not to care. There's no drunk texting exes, so there's been less drama for me—and maybe a little less action, but I'm fine with that. I'm so used to people knowing and accepting I don't drink that it's weird when I go on dates and someone is surprised by it. " a Canadian guy I went on a date with asked me the other week.

I sat at a restaurant in Midtown, across the table from a 22-year-old guy I met at a friend's party.In case you forgot, Sunday is the annual buzzkill also known as Valentine's Day. We had seen each other a couple of times, so he had heard the story that I don't drink and never had.Though there's never been a better time to be a single lady, there's something about a day dedicated to coupledom that can really take the wind out of our self-sufficient sails. He was determined to change it."Let me tell you why you should drink," he began."You're welcome to, but I'll warn you right now you're not going to change my mind," I said honestly.“They want the girlfriend experience, without having to deal with an actual girlfriend.”“The girlfriend experience” is the term women in the sex trade use for a service involving more than just sex. People who make seven dollars an hour are oppressed by the patriarchy.”“She’s in control of the male gaze,” says another woman at the table, Erin, 22.“I thought about doing it,” says Kristen, 21, tentatively.“They want the perfect girlfriend—in their eyes,” says Miranda, the young woman at our table.* “She’s well groomed, cultured, classy, able to converse about anything—but not bringing into it any of her real-world problems or feelings.”Miranda is 22 and has the wavy bobbed hair and clipped mid-Atlantic accent of a 1930s movie star; she grew up in a Texas suburb. He gave me money to help out with my living expenses.”It ended when she went on a school year abroad and started meeting men on Seeking Arrangement, the Web site and app which match “sugar daddies” with “sugar babies,” whose company the daddies pay for with “allowances.” Now, she says, she has a rotation of three regular “clients”—”a top Austin lawyer, a top architect, and another tech guy,” all of them married. “I signed up for Seeking Arrangement when I couldn’t pay my rent.

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