The cons of internet dating
What’s more, many people who meet in the online sites that cater to hookups end up in long-term relationships.
This environment, mind you, is just like the one we see in the offline world.
Surrounded by potential partners, she pulled out her phone, hid it coyly beneath the counter, and opened the online dating app Tinder.
On her screen, images of men appeared and then disappeared to the left and right, depending on the direction in which she wiped.
Is it creating a new reality in which people actively avoid real-life interactions?
"There are a lot of theories out there about how online dating is bad for us," Michael Rosenfeld, a sociologist at Stanford who has been conducting a long-running study of online dating, told me the other day.
"And mostly they're pretty unfounded." Rosenfeld, who has been keeping tabs on the dating lives of more than 3,000 people, has gleaned many insights about the growing role of apps like Tinder.
I actually don’t see in my data any negative repercussions for people who meet partners online.
In fact, people who meet their partners online are not more likely to break up — they don’t have more transitory relationships.