Where in the quran does it say dating is haram

I came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and asked him, ‘O Messenger of Allaah, should I marry ‘Anaaq?

’ The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) remained silent and did not answer me at all, until the aayah ‘Let no man guilty of adultery or fornication marry any but a woman similarly guilty, or an Unbeliever; nor let any but such a man or an Unbeliever marry such a woman; to the Believers such a thing is forbidden’ [al-Noor 24:3 – Yusuf ‘Ali’s translation] was revealed.

For non permissible males to have a relationship with non permissible females is one of the major sins in today’s era.

Whilst working or studying is commended and supported by Islam, the values of guarding one’s modesty and chastity are even more important.

Then the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘O Marthad, Let no man guilty of adultery or fornication marry any but a woman similarly guilty, or an Unbeliever; nor let any but such a man or an Unbeliever marry such a woman, so do not marry her.’” (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 3101; he said: it is a hasan ghareeb hadeeth). Allaah has done away with shirk and had brought Islam.” So he left her alone and went away, still looking at her, until he walked into a wall, hitting his face.

‘Abd-Allaah ibn Maghfal reported that there was a woman who had been a prostitute during the days of ignorance (before Islam). He came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and told him what had happened.

All men and women have a responsibility under the Shariah that they do not attract the other sex for whom it is unlawful to do so.

Nor should they be muttakhidhi akhdaan, meaning those who have girlfriends or female lovers with whom they have an exclusive relationship, as quoted above from Soorat al-Nisaa’.As barriers of work and study have been relaxed by parents, as they would like to see their children prosper, it has brought its evils with it.Whilst working or studying is commended and supported by Islam, the values of guarding one’s modesty and chastity are even more important.For non permissible males to have a relationship with non permissible females is one of the major sins in today’s era.Unfortunately we see this western influence spreading like an illness amongst the Muslim youth.

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